Writing for Wellbeing: Therapeutic Writing to Process Trauma Experiencing trauma, whether a single overwhelming event such as an accident, assault, medical emergency, or sudden loss, or the more cumulative effects of difficult childhood experiences, can leave you feeling stuck, fragmented, or disconnected from yourself. Talking therapies can be invaluable, and therapeutic writing offers something alongside or between those conversations: a…
What Supervision Is Actually For: A Relational Perspective Clinical supervision is more than a professional requirement. It’s the space where the relational dimensions of your clinical work become visible, where what you carry out of the therapy room can be examined, understood, and used. From a psychodynamic and relational perspective, supervision is itself a relational process, shaped by the same…
Dissociation is something most people experience in mild forms. You drive a familiar route and arrive without remembering the journey. Your mind drifts completely away from a conversation. You feel briefly unreal, as though you’re watching yourself from a slight distance. These experiences are common and usually pass quickly. For some people, dissociation goes considerably further. At the more significant…
Finding the right therapist takes more thought than most people expect. You’re not just looking for someone qualified, you’re looking for someone you can be honest with, someone whose way of working suits the kind of difficulties you’re bringing, and someone whose presence makes the room feel safe enough to do that work. This guide is designed to help you…
If you’re dealing with trauma and private therapy isn’t financially possible right now, that’s a real constraint, not a personal failing. Private therapy is expensive, NHS and charity waiting lists are long, and the gap between knowing you need support and being able to access it is genuinely difficult. This post is about what you can do in that gap.…
You’ve probably made peace, at least on the surface, with your past. You don’t dwell on it. You function well. But your body hasn’t necessarily received the same memo. You carry tension you can’t account for. You’re exhausted in a way that sleep doesn’t touch. Your stomach is unpredictable. You startle easily. A particular tone of voice or a specific…
The question often arrives quietly, somewhere in midlife or later. You’ve managed. You’ve built a life, maintained relationships, met your responsibilities. And yet something hasn’t shifted, a persistent sense of not quite fitting, of relationships following the same patterns, of a self that never fully settled. You find yourself wondering whether the window for change has closed, whether the years…
You probably don’t think of yourself as traumatised. That word tends to conjure something dramatic, something you’d know about. But developmental trauma rarely arrives with that kind of clarity. It seeps into the background of adult life and starts to look like personality. You’re the anxious one, the one who finds relationships hard, the one who works twice as hard…
Which Therapy Is Best for Developmental Trauma? It’s a reasonable question to ask before you start. You want to use your time and money well. You want to find something that will actually work, not just something that sounds plausible. The honest answer is that no single therapy works for everyone, and the research reflects that. What matters more than…
You’ve probably come across both terms. Developmental trauma. Complex PTSD. They appear together so often that it can be hard to know whether they mean the same thing, or whether the distinction actually matters. It does, and understanding it can help you make sense of your own experience. Developmental trauma refers to chronic stress or relational harm that occurs in…